{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"The Reluctant Brotherhood","home_page_url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org","description":"The Reluctant Brotherhood","author":{"name":"The Reluctant Brotherhood"},"items":[{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-land-ahead-facing-prostate-cancer-without-losing-yourself","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/113066\"/><p>An original poem by Bruce Davidson about uncertainty, identity, and the determination to keep living fully, even when the road ahead is unknown.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-land-ahead-facing-prostate-cancer-without-losing-yourself","title":"The Land Ahead: Facing Prostate Cancer Without Losing Yourself","summary":"An original poem by Bruce Davidson about uncertainty, identity, and the determination to keep living fully, even when the road ahead is 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But after nine...","date_modified":"2026-09-03T20:07:42Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-the-odyssey-taught-me-about-coming-home-after-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Odyssey.jpg\"/><p>Weeks after watching The Odyssey, I realized I was still thinking about it, not because of Odysseus's journey, but because of what it revealed about my own.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-the-odyssey-taught-me-about-coming-home-after-cancer","title":"What The Odyssey Taught Me About Coming Home After Cancer","summary":"Weeks after watching The Odyssey, I realized I was still thinking about it, not because of Odysseus's journey, but because of what it revealed about my own.","date_modified":"2026-08-23T14:30:14Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-things-we-stop-noticing","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/ChatGPT%20Image%20Aug%209%2C%202026%2C%2004_07_02%20PM.png\"/><p>This morning I didn't set out to write. 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He's 76 years old, yet somehow still full of energy, curiosity, and a zest for life that inspires me every day.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-cancer-couldnt-take","title":"What Cancer Couldn't Take","summary":"I recently spent ten days in Puerto Rico with my father. He's 76 years old, yet somehow still full of energy, curiosity, and a zest for life that inspires me every day.","date_modified":"2026-06-13T21:41:23Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-he%E2%80%99s-not-saying","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/IMG_7954%202.jpg\"/><p>A guide for the partner standing beside him… trying to understand what changed</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-he%E2%80%99s-not-saying","title":"What He’s Not Saying","summary":"A guide for the partner standing beside him… trying to understand what changed","date_modified":"2026-04-12T21:32:42Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/stop-chasing-who-you-used-to-be","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/1487\"/><p>Making Peace With Cancer, Loss, and the Life That Looks Nothing Like It Used To</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/stop-chasing-who-you-used-to-be","title":"Stop Chasing Who You Used to Be","summary":"Making Peace With Cancer, Loss, and the Life That Looks Nothing Like It Used To","date_modified":"2026-03-29T19:00:15Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-critical-role-of-community-in-a-man%E2%80%99s-life","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Teamwork%20and%20passion%20in%20action.png\"/><p>The Lie That Almost Killed Me — And Why Community Is Vital for Men</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-critical-role-of-community-in-a-man%E2%80%99s-life","title":"The Critical Role of Community in a Man’s Life","summary":"The Lie That Almost Killed Me — And Why Community Is Vital for Men","date_modified":"2026-03-20T20:14:14Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/an-old-friend-returns%E2%80%94incontinence","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/jpxJ8QD\"/><p>What living with the long-term effects of prostate cancer still teaches me about dignity, survivorship, and resilience.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/an-old-friend-returns%E2%80%94incontinence","title":"An Old Friend Returns—Incontinence","summary":"What living with the long-term effects of prostate cancer still teaches me about dignity, survivorship, and resilience.","date_modified":"2026-03-09T23:12:01Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-a-man-is-drowning-in-depression-after-cancer-1","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/37535\"/><p>PART II</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-a-man-is-drowning-in-depression-after-cancer-1","title":"When a Man Is Drowning in Depression After Cancer","summary":"PART II","date_modified":"2026-03-02T00:33:55Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-a-man-is-drowning-in-depression-after-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/37505\"/><p>A Lighthouse for the Man in the Dark—and the Partner Who Loves Him</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-a-man-is-drowning-in-depression-after-cancer","title":"When a Man Is Drowning in Depression After Cancer","summary":"A Lighthouse for the Man in the Dark—and the Partner Who Loves Him","date_modified":"2026-03-02T00:15:53Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/redefining-expectations-after-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/man.in.sunrise.png\"/><p>I sat in church today listening to a sermon about expectations.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/redefining-expectations-after-cancer","title":"Redefining Expectations After Cancer","summary":"I sat in church today listening to a sermon about expectations.","date_modified":"2026-02-22T23:00:40Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/survivorship-the-part-we-weren%E2%80%99t-prepared-for","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/97031\"/><p>I am writing this sitting at home recovering from a recent Optilume procedure to address a urethral stricture. I currently have a catheter in and if I am being honest, this is not the most comfortable place to be physica...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/survivorship-the-part-we-weren%E2%80%99t-prepared-for","title":"Survivorship: The Part We Weren’t Prepared For","summary":"I am writing this sitting at home recovering from a recent Optilume procedure to address a urethral stricture. I currently have a catheter in and if I am being honest, this is not the most comfortable place to be physica...","date_modified":"2026-02-18T01:20:45Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/living-through-prostate-cancer-not-after-it","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/7384\"/><p>There’s a hard truth that many men learn the day they hear the words “You have prostate cancer.”</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/living-through-prostate-cancer-not-after-it","title":"Living Through Prostate Cancer, Not After It","summary":"There’s a hard truth that many men learn the day they hear the words “You have prostate cancer.”","date_modified":"2026-02-02T16:06:23Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/every-man-has-two-lives-prostate-cancer-changes-more-than-one","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/ChatGPT%20Image%20Jan%2026%2C%202026%2C%2010_43_53%20AM.png\"/><p>David Diaz Sr.</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/every-man-has-two-lives-prostate-cancer-changes-more-than-one","title":"Every Man has Two Lives: prostate cancer changes more than one","summary":"David Diaz Sr.","date_modified":"2026-01-26T16:48:25Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-god-is-silent-and-a-man-is-still-standing","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Contemplating%20at%20twilight%20on%20a%20bench.png\"/><p>A reflection on fatherhood, masculinity, suffering, betrayal, illness, jealousy, faith—and how men survive intact</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/when-god-is-silent-and-a-man-is-still-standing","title":"When God Is Silent, and a Man Is Still Standing","summary":"A reflection on fatherhood, masculinity, suffering, betrayal, illness, jealousy, faith—and how men survive intact","date_modified":"2026-01-20T02:16:31Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/beyond-the-bedside-rebuilding-intimacy-with-prostate-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Gemini_Generated_Image_dn4zqtdn4zqtdn4z.png\"/><p>Breaking the Silence</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/beyond-the-bedside-rebuilding-intimacy-with-prostate-cancer","title":"Beyond the Bedside: Rebuilding Intimacy with Prostate Cancer","summary":"Breaking the Silence","date_modified":"2025-09-22T14:20:51Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/letting-go-of-anger-stop-fighting-yourself-and-the-ones-you-love","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/ChatGPT%20Image%20Sep%208%2C%202025%2C%2011_24_51%20AM.png\"/><p>A prostate cancer diagnosis shakes everything. It stirs up so much fear, grief, and, yes, a deep-seated anger. Anger at your body, at your doctors, even at life itself. For a while, that anger might feel like a source of...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/letting-go-of-anger-stop-fighting-yourself-and-the-ones-you-love","title":"Letting Go of Anger: Stop Fighting Yourself and the Ones You Love","summary":"A prostate cancer diagnosis shakes everything. It stirs up so much fear, grief, and, yes, a deep-seated anger. Anger at your body, at your doctors, even at life itself. For a while, that anger might feel like a source of...","date_modified":"2025-09-08T15:50:02Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/september-is-prostate-cancer-awareness-month-why-it-matters","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/ChatGPT%20Image%20Sep%201%2C%202025%2C%2004_29_23%20PM.png\"/><p>September isn’t just the month where the leaves begin to change—it’s also Prostate Cancer Awareness Month, a time dedicated to shining a light on the most common cancer among men (outside of skin cancer) and the second l...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/september-is-prostate-cancer-awareness-month-why-it-matters","title":"September Is Prostate Cancer Awareness Month: Why It Matters","summary":"September isn’t just the month where the leaves begin to change—it’s also Prostate Cancer Awareness Month, a time dedicated to shining a light on the most common cancer among men (outside of skin cancer) and the second l...","date_modified":"2025-09-01T20:31:28Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancers-hidden-grief","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/man%20breaking%20chains.jpeg\"/><p>I'm sitting here working on this blog, and my heart feels heavy. I just found out my Aunt Emily passed away, and losing someone you love—just hits you in this really specific, piercing way. It’s different from the kinds ...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancers-hidden-grief","title":"Prostate Cancer's Hidden Grief","summary":"I'm sitting here working on this blog, and my heart feels heavy. I just found out my Aunt Emily passed away, and losing someone you love—just hits you in this really specific, piercing way. It’s different from the kinds ...","date_modified":"2025-08-25T01:11:07Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/thesilent-struggle-when-prostate-cancer-makes-you-feel-all-alone","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Gemini_Generated_Image_w5tu6rw5tu6rw5tu.jpeg\"/><p>You know, when you get that diagnosis—prostate cancer—you kind of brace for it. You think the world will stop or move in some huge, dramatic way. But it doesn't, not really. The thing that actually changes is your own in...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/thesilent-struggle-when-prostate-cancer-makes-you-feel-all-alone","title":"TheSilent Struggle: When Prostate Cancer Makes You Feel All Alone","summary":"You know, when you get that diagnosis—prostate cancer—you kind of brace for it. You think the world will stop or move in some huge, dramatic way. But it doesn't, not really. The thing that actually changes is your own in...","date_modified":"2025-08-18T01:14:43Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/why-should-i-advocate-or-do-research-on-my-diagnosis","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/5729\"/><p>You know, a little while back, someone in our community asked a question that really stuck with me. They said, &quot;Why should I bother advocating for myself or doing my own research? Isn't that what my doctor is for?&quot;</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/why-should-i-advocate-or-do-research-on-my-diagnosis","title":"Why Should I Advocate or Do Research on My Diagnosis?","summary":"You know, a little while back, someone in our community asked a question that really stuck with me. They said, \"Why should I bother advocating for myself or doing my own research? Isn't that what my doctor is for?\"","date_modified":"2025-08-11T14:45:05Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/reflections-from-zero%E2%80%99s-leader-mentor-training","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/zero.png\"/><p>Honestly, I wasn't entirely sure what to expect when I headed to Las Vegas this past Friday and Saturday for the ZERO Prostate Cancer Support Group Leader and Mentor Training. It felt… well, it felt significant, but what...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/reflections-from-zero%E2%80%99s-leader-mentor-training","title":"Reflections from ZERO’s Leader & Mentor Training","summary":"Honestly, I wasn't entirely sure what to expect when I headed to Las Vegas this past Friday and Saturday for the ZERO Prostate Cancer Support Group Leader and Mentor Training. It felt… well, it felt significant, but what...","date_modified":"2025-08-04T17:52:11Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-power-of-story-how-sharing-your-experience-heals","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/3589\"/><p>You know, there's just something kind of magical about a good story, isn't there? It’s why we still remember those little lessons our grandparents and parents told us, long after we've probably forgotten a ton of anecdot...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/the-power-of-story-how-sharing-your-experience-heals","title":"The Power of Story: How Sharing Your Experience Heals ","summary":"You know, there's just something kind of magical about a good story, isn't there? 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One of the questions that may weigh heavily on your mind is, “How soon do I need to decide on a treatment plan?” Drawing f...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/how-soon-should-you-decide-on-prostate-cancer-treatment","title":"How Soon Should You Decide on Prostate Cancer Treatment?","summary":"A prostate cancer diagnosis often brings a whirlwind of emotions and a pressing need for answers. One of the questions that may weigh heavily on your mind is, “How soon do I need to decide on a treatment plan?” Drawing f...","date_modified":"2025-06-16T13:21:04Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/psa-vs-pse-tests-for-prostate-cancer-detection","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/o3eoKa8\"/><p>Prostate cancer is one of the most common cancers among men, making screening and early detection vital for effective treatment and improved outcomes. For years, the prostate-specific antigen (PSA) test has been the prim...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/psa-vs-pse-tests-for-prostate-cancer-detection","title":"Revised: PSA vs. PSE Tests for Prostate Cancer Detection","summary":"Prostate cancer is one of the most common cancers among men, making screening and early detection vital for effective treatment and improved outcomes. For years, the prostate-specific antigen (PSA) test has been the prim...","date_modified":"2025-06-02T14:38:00Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-i-wish-my-partner-knew-about-supporting-me-through-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/103596\"/><p>A cancer diagnosis is life-changing for both the patient and their loved ones. While my prostate cancer battle brought challenges I never anticipated, it was the emotional toll and the changes in my relationship that cau...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-i-wish-my-partner-knew-about-supporting-me-through-cancer","title":"What I Wish My Partner Knew About Supporting Me Through Cancer","summary":"A cancer diagnosis is life-changing for both the patient and their loved ones. While my prostate cancer battle brought challenges I never anticipated, it was the emotional toll and the changes in my relationship that cau...","date_modified":"2025-05-26T21:55:24Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/how-to-use-ai-to-win-against-your-prostate-cancer","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/Book.jpg\"/><p>If you or a loved one is navigating a prostate cancer diagnosis, you might feel overwhelmed, scared, or unsure of where to start. These emotions are valid, and they’re a natural part of facing a challenging diagnosis. Bu...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/how-to-use-ai-to-win-against-your-prostate-cancer","title":"How to Use AI to Win Against Your Prostate Cancer  ","summary":"If you or a loved one is navigating a prostate cancer diagnosis, you might feel overwhelmed, scared, or unsure of where to start. These emotions are valid, and they’re a natural part of facing a challenging diagnosis. Bu...","date_modified":"2025-05-05T13:00:39Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/a-thought-provoking-perspective-on-prostate-cancer-treatments","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/IMG_2008.jpg\"/><p>One of our incredible community members, Jamie, went above and beyond to bring an insightful piece to our attention. With the author’s kind permission, we are thrilled to share an essay originally published in The Washin...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/a-thought-provoking-perspective-on-prostate-cancer-treatments","title":"A Thought-Provoking Perspective on Prostate Cancer ADT Treatments","summary":"One of our incredible community members, Jamie, went above and beyond to bring an insightful piece to our attention. With the author’s kind permission, we are thrilled to share an essay originally published in The Washin...","date_modified":"2025-04-28T00:54:52Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-i-wish-i-knew-before-starting-adt","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/72367\"/><p>When you first hear about androgen deprivation therapy (ADT) as a prostate cancer treatment option, it can feel like stepping into the unknown. It’s a big step, one that comes with its own set of challenges and adjustmen...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/what-i-wish-i-knew-before-starting-adt","title":"What I Wish I Knew Before Starting (ADT)","summary":"When you first hear about androgen deprivation therapy (ADT) as a prostate cancer treatment option, it can feel like stepping into the unknown. 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While remission brings immense relief, there’s one recurring event that many ...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/managing-psa-test-anxiety-as-a-prostate-cancer-survivor","title":"Managing PSA Test Anxiety as a Prostate Cancer Survivor","summary":"If you’ve been living as a prostate cancer survivor, you’re no stranger to the emotional rollercoaster that can accompany post-treatment life. While remission brings immense relief, there’s one recurring event that many ...","date_modified":"2025-04-07T14:01:08Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/understanding-urethral-strictures-and-prostate-cancer-my-journey","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/lbQgqkg\"/><p>Prostate cancer is a challenging road many of us never expected to walk. It’s a path filled with brave moments, uncertainty, and plenty of adjustments. Along the way, different health complications can arise that we migh...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/understanding-urethral-strictures-and-prostate-cancer-my-journey","title":"Understanding Urethral Strictures and Prostate Cancer: My Journey","summary":"Prostate cancer is a challenging road many of us never expected to walk. It’s a path filled with brave moments, uncertainty, and plenty of adjustments. Along the way, different health complications can arise that we migh...","date_modified":"2025-03-23T20:49:43Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancer-and-mental-health-finding-strength-together","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/109867\"/><p>Prostate cancer brings with it a range of challenges that extend beyond the physical. The emotional toll can be just as profound, not only for those diagnosed but also for their loved ones. Unfortunately, these struggles...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancer-and-mental-health-finding-strength-together","title":"Prostate Cancer and Mental Health: Finding Strength Together","summary":"Prostate cancer brings with it a range of challenges that extend beyond the physical. The emotional toll can be just as profound, not only for those diagnosed but also for their loved ones. Unfortunately, these struggles...","date_modified":"2025-03-17T14:25:01Z"},{"id":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancer-stages-and-what-they-mean","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/0a8c47d6-4669-4d38-ae7d-190571db2310/blob-ae82b98.png\"/><p>Prostate cancer is a diagnosis that brings with it many questions, emotions, and uncertainties. If you or someone you care for has recently been diagnosed, understanding the stages of prostate cancer can provide some cla...</p>","url":"https://thereluctantbrotherhood.org/stories-%26-blogs/f/prostate-cancer-stages-and-what-they-mean","title":"Prostate Cancer Stages and What They Mean","summary":"Prostate cancer is a diagnosis that brings with it many questions, emotions, and uncertainties. If you or someone you care for has recently been diagnosed, understanding the stages of prostate cancer can provide some cla...","date_modified":"2025-03-03T15:47:15Z"}]}